How can bereavement counselling help?

Bereavement, grief and loss

Bereavement, grief, and loss can affect people in many different ways. There is no right or wrong way to feel, and it’s important to remember that it’s okay not to feel okay. This is especially true when facing palliative or end-of-life care, where emotions can feel overwhelming and deeply complex.

For many, grief is a subject that is rarely spoken about. It can feel too painful or uncomfortable to discuss, and people often worry that saying the wrong thing might upset someone who is grieving. Yet, silence can sometimes feel like a lack of care.

Some people find strength and support through family and friends, while others may need the guidance of a professional counsellor to help them navigate their journey.

We spoke with Patricia Brady, a registered nurse and bereavement counsellor, who chose to support others after experiencing a deeply personal loss herself. Her own journey through grief inspired her to help people facing some of the most difficult moments of their lives.

“During my deep grief, I realised the importance of support following a tragic death. How life can change in every way including your physical and mental health. I concluded that support should be available to everyone when a life-changing situation occurs. I became very aware that following the death of a loved one, we need someone who truly understands our journey and can listen without judgement, show compassion and allow the bereaved person as much time as possible to process the enormous challenges ahead.”

Alongside her hospice work, Patricia brings her skills to Cavendish Homecare, where she provides compassionate, holistic support for clients, their families, and staff. Her expertise in palliative care, coupled with her patience and empathy, helps ensure the best possible outcomes during an incredibly complex and sensitive time.

Patricia’s work with RoadPeace

Patricia has also supported the national charity RoadPeace as a befriender and counsellor.

Roadpeace provides vital information and support to people bereaved or seriously injured in road crashes, while also campaigning for justice for victims and working to reduce road danger through evidence-based policy.

Photo Credit: Roadpeace

“My role involves supporting the newly bereaved with one hour weekly sessions where clients can talk and process their grief with somebody who truly understands the impact on their life journey through the grief process. These sessions can go on for as long as the client needs them to, often many months or even years, there is no limit or timescale to the support I offer.”

Final thoughts from Patricia,

“I have come to realise clients do better in their grief journey knowing that the counsellor has experienced a similar tragedy, it gives them hope that one day the pain will ease and there is light at the end of the tunnel. Every client has their own way of dealing with grief, there is no right or wrong way. A great deal of patience and understanding is required doing this work, it is very fulfilling knowing you can make a difference and comfort the newly bereaved through listening and non- judgmental engaging.”

We want to thank Patricia for sharing her story and journey into bereavement counselling. If these feelings are affecting your life, there are things you can try that may help. Support is also available if you’re finding it hard to cope with stress, anxiety or depression, wherever you work.

How can Cavendish Homecare help?

At Cavendish Homecare we are experts in providing palliative homecare for clients who want to remain in their own homes. When it comes to your health and wellbeing, choosing the right homecare package is of utmost importance and navigating this process can be overwhelming. With Cavendish Homecare by your side, you’ll have the support you need to remain safely at home while enjoying elevated health and wellbeing.

If you would like to enquire about our homecare services, contact us on, 02030085210 or email us at info@cavendishhomecare.com.

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