Importance of spiritual support at the end of life

October 20, 2023

Importance of spiritual support at the end of life

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Key Takeaways

Finding meaning and peace

Spiritual support helps people make sense of their lives when facing a terminal illness. It is not just about religion; it is about exploring personal values, finding sources of strength, and seeking hope, gratitude, and a sense of belonging during a difficult time.

Tailored and inclusive care

Spirituality is unique to everyone. For some, it involves organised faith and prayer, while for others, it is found in nature, hobbies, or relationships. Support is tailored to these individual beliefs to ensure the person feels understood and respected.

Recognising unmet needs

When a person asks ‘Why me?’ or becomes withdrawn, they may have unmet spiritual needs. Tools like the HOPE assessment help start vital conversations about what gives a person’s life meaning, ensuring their care aligns with their identity and wishes.

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Why is spiritual support important at the end of life?

Spiritual support is important at the end of life for many reasons. Being diagnosed with a terminal illness often causes loved ones to think about death, loss and grief, in ways that haven’t had to before.

This type of support helps loved ones approaching the end of life and those close to them including their relatives and friends, too:

  • explore how they might understand, make sense of or find meaning in what is happening to them
  • identify sources of strength they can draw on, and
  • decide whether those sources are helpful during this period in their lives.

Spiritual support does not have to be structured but the expectation is that it would also include assessment and provision of resources to support the person approaching the end of life and those close to them. It is tailored to the needs, beliefs and values of the person approaching the end of life. Families and relationships tend to be an important influence on spiritual wellbeing, and much support can be provided from within the family or by close friends.

What is spirituality?

According to the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, spirituality is defined as ‘those beliefs, values and practices that relate to the human search for meaning in life. For some people, spirituality is expressed through adherence to organised religion, while for others it may relate to their identities, relationships with others, secular ethical values or humanist philosophies’.

What are spiritual needs?

Spiritual needs can include:

  • the want for meaning and purpose in our lives
  • the demand to love and feel loved
  • the need to feel a sense of belonging
  • the need to feel hope, peace and gratitude.

People do different things to meet these spiritual needs, depending on what’s important to them. Some people do things within their religion such as prayer or going to a religious meeting. For other people, it could be being with friends and family, spending time in nature or doing work or hobbies.

What’s most important to someone can change over their lifetime.

Spiritual support

Encourage your loved ones to talk about how they are feeling. Someone might have unmet spiritual needs if they are:

  • searching for meaning, for example asking questions such as ‘Why is this happening?’, ‘Why me?’, ‘Who am I?’ and ‘How will I be remembered?’
  • becoming more withdrawn and isolated
  • afraid of being alone
  • refusing care
  • saying they feel scared or worried.

There are assessment tools you can use to start the conversation. One of these is the HOPE tool which is based on the questions below:

Hope

  • What are your sources of hope, strength, comfort and peace?

Organised religion

  • Do you have a religion or faith?
  • How important is your faith religion or faith to you?

Personal spirituality and practices

  • What do you do that gives you a sense of meaning and purpose in life
  • In what ways does this add to your sense of identity?

Effects on medical care and of life issues

  • Has being unwell stopped you from doing things that give your life meaning and purpose?
  • Are there any specific practices we should know about in providing for your care?

If you feel unsure about what spirituality means, or you find it difficult to talk about it, you might find it helpful to assess yourself. It can help you to identify and explore your thoughts on spirituality at the end of life.

How can Cavendish Homecare help?

At Cavendish Homecare, we are experts in providing end-of-life homecare for clients who want to remain in their own homes. When it comes to your health and wellbeing, choosing the right homecare package is of utmost importance and navigating this process can be overwhelming. With Cavendish Homecare by your side, you’ll have the support you need to remain safely at home while enjoying elevated health and wellbeing.

If you would like to enquire about our homecare services, contact us on, 02030085210 or email us at info@cavendishhomecare.com.

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About the Author…

Colleen Liston

Associate Director

Colleen blends strategic insight with creativity to drive growth and efficiency. With a background in construction management and deep roots in the care sector, she’s passionate about making a meaningful impact and supporting the team behind the scenes.